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Dear **, 

No relationship is without problems. Lately we have been fighting a little too much. I have made mistakes too. Instead of trying to work through any disagreements, I have stood my stuborn ground and I have said many things when we I should have held my tongue. I admit my mistakes and I am so sorry for any trouble we are going through.

This letter isn't to say who is right and who is wrong. In fact, I am not even going to bring up any of the current arguements we have been having. I only wanted to write you this letter to tell you that I know we can work through them. No matter how strongly we disagree on any subject, I will always be able to say this : I am madly in love with you and never want anything to get in between us. I think you feel the same way too.

**, my love for you is still as strong as it when we first became lovers. It is even stronger now. It is only because we love each other so much that we are able to survive such tumultuous times. We are able to stick by each other’s side, even when we are able not getting along. Our love is so powerful it binds us together like glue. And I must admit, I enjoy it. I love being so close to you and knowing that nothing could ever separate us, not even the toughest of relationship problems. 

Still, I would rather not fight with the one I love so dearly. Right now I want to focus on the man I fell head over heels for and our love together. You are so important to me. You are more important than the air I breathe, more than blood pumping through my heart and much more than any trivial problem which seem so important at the time.

I propose, my sweet, that for at least one night we should set aside our differences. Let’s forget our problems. The time is largely overdue for some attention that needs to be made to loving each other to do this for one another.

In love, wani .

Sorry, I fantasize about you. 'You' that never existed in the real world.
Thanks for coming in my dream.

-copied-

Love is tough?

Bad is easy, Good is hard. 

Losing is easy. Winning is hard. 

Talking is easy. Listening is hard. 

Watching TV is easy. Reading is hard. 

Giving advice is easy. Taking advice is hard. 

Flab is easy. Muscle is hard. 

Stop is easy. Go is hard. 

Dirty is easy. Clean is hard. 

Take is easy. Give is hard. 

Dream is easy. Think is hard. 

 Lying is easy. Truth is hard. 

Sleeping is easy. Waking is hard. 

Talking about God is easy. Praying to God is hard. 

Watching basketball is easy. Playing basketball is hard. 

Holding a grudge is easy. Forgiving is hard. 

Telling a secret is easy. Keeping a secret is hard. 

Play is easy. Work is hard. 

Falling is easy. Getting up is hard. 

Spending is easy. Saving is hard. 

Eating is easy. Dieting is hard. 

Doubt is easy. Faith is hard. 

Laughter is easy. Tears are hard. 

Criticizing is easy. Taking criticism is hard. 

Letting go is easy. Hanging on is hard. 

Secret sin is easy. Confession is hard. 

Pride is easy. Humility is hard. 

Excusing oneself is easy. Excusing others is hard. 

Borrowing is easy. Paying back is hard. 

Sex is easy. Love is hard. 

Argument is easy. Negotiation is hard. 

Naughty is easy. Nice is hard. 

Going along is easy. Walking alone is hard. 

Dumb is easy. Smart is hard. 

Cowardice is easy. Bravery is hard. 

Messy is easy. Neat is hard. 

War is easy. Peace is hard. 

Sarcasm is easy. Sincerity is hard. 

An F is easy. An A is hard. 

Growing weeds is easy. Growing flowers is hard. 

Reaction is easy. Action is hard. 

Can't do is easy. Can do is hard. 

Feasting is easy. Fasting is hard. 

Following is easy. Leading is hard. 

Having friend is easy. Being a friend is hard. 

Dying is easy. Living is hard. 

No matter who we are, life is hard, and we all ask why it should be so. But there is comfort in knowing we're not alone. So maybe your child or the person sitting over there needs to hear from you right this minute that sometimes you question, too, but that the One who knows us best and loves us the most promises that for those who choose the hard way, the dawn gives way to morning splendor while the evil grope and stumble in the dark. It just is. Nothing in life that is good and worthwhile comes without effort.